Sexting with your partner can be fun, exciting and ignite a fire in your body. Sexting is a fun and provocative form of communication. It is an thrilling way to flirt with your partner and rev up your engine. Pumping up the electrifying conversation will prepare both of your bodies for a great evening. Society has placed this label of taboo on anything to do with sex. There is no reason for this feeling of wrong doing or inappropriate behavior when it comes to your relationship. Your relationship is a safe place and sharing with your partner is fun, exciting and perfectly normal. Flirting is a big part of courtship and relationships. There is no reason why the flirting needs to stop just because you are married. Flirting doesn’t have to stop when you are in a committed relationship either. Its up to you to change the rules for yourself. Develop a plan that makes you feel sexy, happy and alive. It can be simple or complex depending on your desires and fantasies. Your relationship is a safe place to share your desires and fantasies. There is no need to keep your desires and fantasies secret from your partner. Let them truly understand your needs and appetite for your sexual experiences. We all have fantasies and your relationship is a safe place to share them. Your partner will embrace your fantasies and desires to develop a more intense and deep bond between you. I know it can be hard to step out of your comfort zone. I lived it, I was hiding my desires and fantasies for 15 years from my husband. I was scared to express myself and truly tell him what I needed. It doesn’t have to be such a struggle. Everything started to change the moment I started to share my likes and dislikes with my husband. Our relationship grew in exponential ways once I finally took the leap and truly expressed myself. The passion we felt during our courtship returned and our sexual relationship flourished once again. You can start simple with sexting or sending a pictue. Sometimes sending a text is easier than speaking your mind. Sometimes a little love note or email is even easier. For me that was how it started, writing a letter via email was the medium for me to regain the voice that I had hidden for so long. Once you open the door the communication begins to flow easily and the walls you have built tumble down. Sexting doesn’t have to be difficult or scary. If you don’t know what to say, there are so many options today. It doesn’t have to feel dirty or wrong to share with someone special. There are now a variety of applications with phrases to help guide you. There are even quotes on the internet that you can use to get ideas. If you are scared of sending pictures you can use SnapChat. Once you start exploring and engaging in sexting it becomes easier and the excitement builds. Taking a few minutes to tell your partner that you are thinking of them makes them feel appreciated, wanted and desired. It brings you closer and opens the door for communication and fantastic sex. So take a leap, send your partner a sexy text message, the results will surprise you.
